{"id":1735,"date":"2016-04-01T08:31:30","date_gmt":"2016-04-01T08:31:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/iuliapasarin.ro\/?p=1735"},"modified":"2020-01-12T18:10:50","modified_gmt":"2020-01-12T18:10:50","slug":"handicaparea-emotionala-a-copilului","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iuliapasarin.ro\/?p=1735","title":{"rendered":"Handicaparea emo\u021bional\u0103 a copilului"},"content":{"rendered":"

Privarea copilului \u00een a experimenta emo\u021bii \u00een raport cu propria persoan\u0103 sau \u00een rela\u021bie cu alte persoane, dezvolt\u0103 un poten\u021bial de handicapare emo\u021bional\u0103 a copilului, un blocaj \u00een a nu se conecta la sine, \u00een a nu-\u0219i asculta corpul, de a-\u0219i auto anula emo\u021biile, de s\u0103r\u0103cire emo\u021bional\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103, nu de pu\u021bine ori, ca atunci c\u00e2nd copilul cade,\u00a0 se love\u0219te, s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 \u00eel \u00eencuraj\u0103m prin formule de genul \u201enu este nimic, tu e\u0219ti b\u0103iat \/ copil mare\u201d,\u00a0 \u201elas\u0103 c\u0103 nu te-ai lovit a\u0219a tare,\u00a0 nu are ce s\u0103 te doar\u0103\u201d,\u00a0 \u201eb\u0103ie\u021bii nu pl\u00e2ng\u201d, \u00a0\u201ee ru\u0219ine s\u0103 pl\u00e2ngi,\u00a0 te vede lumea\u201d. Din dorin\u021ba de a face bine, de fapt, \u00eei facem un r\u0103u copilului anul\u00e2ndu-i emo\u021biile.<\/span><\/p>\n

Face\u021bi o c\u0103l\u0103torie imaginar\u0103\u00a0\u00een timp \u0219i g\u00e2ndi\u021bi-v\u0103 la o situa\u021bie similar\u0103 din copil\u0103ria voastr\u0103 \u2013 o c\u0103z\u0103tur\u0103, o lovitur\u0103\u00a0\u0219i brusc, \u00een momentul urm\u0103tor vi s-a interzis s\u0103\u00a0v\u0103 tr\u0103i\u021bi durerea \u201enu pl\u00e2nge c\u0103 e\u0219ti mare\u201d, \u201elas\u0103 ca nu te-ai lovit a\u0219a tare\u201d sau \u201eo meri\u021bi\u201d, ori mai r\u0103u, \u021bi-ai mai luat \u0219i o urecheal\u0103 zdrav\u0103n\u0103 c\u0103 nu ai fost atent\/\u0103. \u00ce\u021bi aminte\u0219ti? Fii sincer\/\u0103 cu tine, cum te-ai sim\u021bit? \u021ai-ai \u00eenghi\u021bit lacrimile \u0219i ru\u0219inea? \u021ai-ar pl\u0103cea ca \u0219i copilul t\u0103u s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 asta? G\u00e2nde\u0219te-te c\u0103 astfel de \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103ri sunt tr\u0103ite mai intens de un copil.\u00a0 \u00ce\u021bi aminte\u0219ti? Acum crezi c\u0103\u00a0\u00eei vei mai putea anula copilului t\u0103u emo\u021biile \u0219i dreptul la lacrimi?<\/span><\/p>\n

Nodul \u00een g\u00e2t care apare uneori poate simboliza lacrimile nepl\u00e2nse,\u00a0 emo\u021biile \u00een\u0103bu\u0219ite.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sensibilitatea nu este o sl\u0103biciune. Senza\u021biile \u0219i emo\u021biile sunt parte a vie\u021bii,\u00a0 iar ru\u0219inea nu are ce c\u0103uta \u00een povestea de azi.<\/span><\/p>\n

At\u00e2t feti\u021bele, c\u00e2t \u0219i b\u0103ie\u021bii au dreptul s\u0103\u00a0pl\u00e2ng\u0103 pentru c\u0103 natura, Dumnezeu, cum vre\u021bi s\u0103-i spune\u021bi, ne-a dat darul de a ne sp\u0103la durerea interioar\u0103\u00a0cu lacrimi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Valideaz\u0103-i emo\u021biile copilului t\u0103u. Coboar\u0103 la el, \u00een\u021belege-i durerea \u0219i ajut\u0103-l s\u0103 se ridice.<\/span><\/p>\n

O zi cu \u00een\u021belepciune!<\/span><\/p>\n

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Privarea copilului \u00een a experimenta emo\u021bii \u00een raport cu propria persoan\u0103 sau \u00een rela\u021bie cu alte persoane, dezvolt\u0103 un poten\u021bial de handicapare emo\u021bional\u0103 a copilului, un blocaj \u00een a nu se conecta la sine, \u00een a nu-\u0219i asculta corpul, de a-\u0219i auto anula emo\u021biile, de s\u0103r\u0103cire emo\u021bional\u0103. Se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103, nu de pu\u021bine ori, ca atunci … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2833,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[372,86,18,63],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/iuliapasarin.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1735"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/iuliapasarin.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/iuliapasarin.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iuliapasarin.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iuliapasarin.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1735"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/iuliapasarin.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1735\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2983,"href":"https:\/\/iuliapasarin.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1735\/revisions\/2983"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iuliapasarin.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2833"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/iuliapasarin.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1735"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iuliapasarin.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1735"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iuliapasarin.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1735"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}